Money matters (relationship-related monies style ANGST)

I'm with Chaotic. Money issues are no joke, and you need to look out for yourself. Get his ass in gear so you can maintain a healthier relationship in the future. He is absolutely taking advantage of you and you shouldn't stand for it anymore. If he freaks out about it, then he's being a baby. He needs to get a grip on his spending if he's going to lead a normal life.

I must ask though, is £10 really a lot for a meal? That's what, roughly $15? Is he employed?

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by Bob

ISprout: Well considering we're on student budgeting, and since I can get my weekly shop done for £10, I'd say it's a lot of money. Not relatively speaking but as a student for a night's meal... Food is probably his biggest weakness in terms of money. He never plans ahead so if he's got no food in (happens a lot) and all the shops are shut/he can't be arsed walking to the supermarket he'll splash out on a takeaway. Or like his curry-making phase, I helped him buy a shitload of spices to make a base sauce since he said he was going to freeze it in portions (so I thought hey, now overall that's cheaper and it seems like a good idea), but he made one curry out of it and threw the rest away, I mean what the fuck.

Christ, you guys are STUDENTS and he's spending all that money? Much of it being YOUR money, to boot? That's just gross, seriously. I don't have much more wisdom to impart upon you other than to leave his worthless ass. I know I don't know dick about the guy (or you for that matter) but this is a problem that I think everyone can universally agree on as being fairly incurable unless drastic measures are taken.

There's nowhere I can't reach.