Do you remember your first love?

My first love lasted about 2 and a half years, with ups and downs.
It finally ended because I was tired of staying up until 4am every morning arguing about stupid things that open-minded people don't argue about.

I still have a fond place for her in my heart, but I doubt she has that for me. In anycase, it's fine.

I'm in love with a girl now and it's wonderful, but she can't forget her first love...we all have to go through it I guess.

I wonder when she's gonna stop letting him treat her like shit.

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Originally Posted by Free.User

How did the realization (that you wouldn't be close to her like you were before) play out? Was it just a fact that you had to accept over time?

Honestly, it happened over time...a period of three years? First relationships are pretty strong...there's usually alot invested.

The realization was quite sudden. I suddenly just decided to give up, after seeking advice from my friends (adult and my age).

Some of the things my adult friends told me that I remember...

"Close your eyes and imagine her in bed being held by another man. If that doesn't make you jealous with rage then is it really the girl you want to spend the rest of your life with?"

and

"We find something and grab onto it. And then we walk around, holding on to this precious thing. No matter what passes by, if we have our precious thing, we don't see it. Our hand is full and we are satisfied. Unless we aren't satisfied."

Anyway, feel free to discuss. They aren't my words.

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