Getting over the looks

Let's be honest, people with "looks" get more attention, it's a fact. This tends to happen because many people that "look good" usually know it and are flaunting it, or they are trying to look good and faking confidence. Either way, better look people usually have a confidence in them that captures attention as well.

The only way I know of to not get sucked into the attention game, is apply my mind to looking for people that are not the first one you might notice, but are amazing. Many times you can see a "fringe" person that could be getting attention with more confidence. I tend to gravitate to those people because I can relate to the lack of confidence thing. But either way, just looking for intriguing things about other people instead of focusing on the person that is obviously captivating can be a way to break the system.

Jam it back in, in the dark.