How to Fuck Up a Relationship

So we are saying that men lie to cover up their misconduct, and women lie to cover up there true feelings?

Haha. If only the stereotypes were true. My personal experience is that women lie like its nothing. Been broken up with twice on lies, and not subtle lies, but strong, bold and deceitful lies. To say that men are the epitome of unfaithfulness is to deny the facts. It is statistically true that women engage in extra-marital affairs more than men. Lets get off the men are horrible beings kick.

Truly, dishonesty/unfaithfulness in relationships is most often caused by self-gratification or fear. I'm sick of people that are just looking to "get more out of our relationship" or don't quit being with the prick they are with because "they are afraid of being alone". Wake up people. Live your life, and invest love in someone else, and don't ever hold it back.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

And personal experience is the measure of truth?

How ya doing, buddy?

No I have not been in a "relationship" with a man. I am a man, and am not gay.

The point of the paragraph you keep referencing was to prove that personal experience can not be the basis for establishing truths about "men" or "women". Men are no more horrible and lying than women. No matter how many times you've seen it, it doesn't make it true. (and just for your info, I don't think there has been any kind of relationship that I have had that the woman was honest with me, but two specifically that ended with blatant lies (as in through discussion with multiple times told).

You seem to conviently pass over my last paragraph, where I see issues with both sides. Girls lie seeking attention, guys lie just to get ass (self-gratification). Girls lie afraid of being alone, guys lie afraid losing the girl (fear). It seems to be a pretty straight-forward system. Very few get it right, as I'm sure I haven't and quite probably you as well.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Originally Posted by Devo

I don't lie about my feelings, I don't feel the need to. I think I read your paragraph as more sarcastic than anything else, I thought you meant that your personal experience justified that girls lie more.

Good. Your my kinda girl () in that blunt honesty is used. I can't stand BS; either like me, could like me, or don't like me. Save the drama for someone else and give me the straight answer and lets move on.

I do admit that my head believes that women are not all liars. Unfortunately, the same cannot be said for the heart stabbed one-too-many-times. Cynicism about the opposite sex seems to be one of my forte's these days. Why lie?

But hopes rise too often only to meet disappointment and defeat. Sometimes you wonder how much longer you're gonna keeping hoping, ya know?

Crap, I just went all sentimental/emo.

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Originally Posted by Devo

The problem is the ones who don't lie have other issues that are just as detrimental.

Are you referring to my situation or yours, or both? (as in "ones"=males or females?)

If both, you are more cynical than I.

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