I like girls.

In the past year or two Ive stopped looking at girls from a physical stand point and started looking for someone I actually like to be around.

Sex gets boring, and so does physcial attraction. The girls ive always liked the most, are ones I can talk to without having to play kiss ass, and walk on eggshells.

The whole "Ive got the hottest girlfriend" bit got old after my first year of college. I would date girls that are attractive, but ultimately uncompatible, and then we would break up after about a month.

I love girls, and I love companionship.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by Fresh Frank

Abuuu? I don't see how these two statements go together, to be honest. There are plenty of sexy women out there who you don't have to play games with. I see no reason you should sacrifice the physicality of a relationship in hopes of a deeper emotional connection.

Not knocking the mind link or anything, but why should she be an uggo?
I suppose I should point out the fact I find most women attractive though.

Im not saying she has to be a dog to be interesting. Im just saying I no longer sit at restaurants with friends, and completely drop the conversation were having to oogle a girl walking by. Its just not something I do now. Ill admit looks are the first thing people notice, but Its how we let it effect us afterwards that matters. I suppose I shouldnt say looks are completely out of the question, but they are taking a major backseat at the moment.

Sex for anyone whos had it knows its not overrated, but also not the most important thing in a relationship. Sex to me only helps affirm what you already have. Ive never been the type to just go out looking for girls with the only intention being sex.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

My comments were less a personal attack on you, and more of a general observation.

Mistaking love for lust happens. Staring at a beautiful woman isnt wrong, but losing your train of thought and having to make it public that you just witnessed a beautiful woman passing is just getting old to me. Its like alot of guys do it just to remind everyone there not gay.

Either way, you do things your way and I do them mine. Its all just prefrence. I sound like a salty old man, but Im really not as complacent towards women as im coming across. Its just weird to explain.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.