First "breakup"

Originally Posted by Denicalis

OMG SHE DOES DRUGS! SOMEONE CALL A WAMBULANCE! I love how you people act like drinking and smoking dope are somehow the ultimate vice. It's probably good that she left you, you seem like a boring S.O.B. anyway. You definitely posted in the right section. It's the only place that won't rip you to shreds for this.

Nice try asshole but I hate people who post like you. I don't give a fuck if he's a drama queen(king?).

He's hurt and well he needs some help and reassurance like any other human being.

And he didn't say that doing drugs or booze is bad(not that I saw anyway.) but if she goes into like an addiction where she's abusing it. THAT IS THE PROBLEM.

Go ahead and try to flame me. You'll be wasting your breath you piece of shit.

Anyway...

I have to agree with most people here.

All you can do is move on and relax. There will be much better girls then that one espeically if she has a drug and or booze problem.

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Sorry Living Legend but it sounds like she doesn't deserve you. Having dealt with a guy with similiar issues, I got to say it really isn't worth it. In fact, feel thankful you got out when you did because bad habits like that have a tendency to suck you in. If she gave you up for her own bad ways, then it's her issue, not yours.

It's totally up to you to give back the relationship items or not, especially if you don't think you can get over the sentimental attachment. In fact, it may help with closure if you get it out of your house but on the other hand, they were gifts and are yours. You just have to decide whether or not you're strong enough to keep them around you without provoking emotions.

First breaks ups are always the hardest, especially if they were first loves. The pain goes away with time but just try to spend your time not locked in your room and out in the world with friends.

Requoted cause she is right.

If at worse did what I did with my friend did on his first break up. Went to a bonfire with friends and me, had fun, talked and burned anything he remembered of her.

He saw the burning as a rite of passing on, to forget the old and reach for the stars. All you have to do is keep on pushing foward and have hope.

Jam it back in, in the dark.