Where's dad?

My parents are split. My mother ditched us right afterwards when we were shoved into CPS facilities.

Have not seen her for over 7 years. She never made any attempt at contacting us. Which is sad really. That means for my youngest brother she's missed half his life. For my youngest sister that's the majority of her life so far.

My father ended up having to do all the work in getting us back. Paying off his bills and the debts left behind by her. Actually, I dont even think all of hers have been payed off yet..

We recently did come in contact with her again. After years of searching my sister got ahold of an aunt on my mothers side of the family. She linked my sister to our ex mother.

She immediatly started hitting my sister up for cash. Then when my father warned her she blamed him for everything that's happened. She pulls a guilt trip on my youngest sister, sending her to tears. Yeah, and she wonders why half her children want nothing to do with her. ;D

So yeah. Parents split. Only have a father. As far as I'm concerned I have no mother. I see a parent as someone who raises and cares for their children untill they're adults. She doesn't fit that category. Blood doesn't automaticly give you the title Parent or Mother.

Jam it back in, in the dark.