Letting go when friendships die forEVAR.

Actually, I went through a similar situation with my best friend from high school. Dealt with losing a friendship with some other drama at the same time. My life turned upside down and when I got back up on my feet, I literally felt like I was living someone else's life. I had like a couple of the same friends, a whole bunch of new ones, a great boyfriend. It's like, I ridded something in my life that held me back but it was probably just a coincidence haha.

Anyways...
First Q: Yeah because when I look back, I just get angry. I regret apologizing to her and trying to fix things. It makes me angry when I think back now. I put up with her shit for too long and I finally snapped back at her. But it's easier to move on and if you keep that and read it to lol @, you may not laugh. So, just a good way to let go.

Second Q: Yeah. I mean there is nothing I can do about the shit I was put through because I feel like the only one she treated like shit and I do not know why at all. I finally snapped back at her, but that is not the right way to handle things. Luckily, I'm not a bitch to my friends... that was just a one time thing haha. But just let time take care of it. He does not need necessarily a good kick in the ass, maybe your life with go incrediably uphill since your friendship broke off, like mine has, and you realize how much better off you are without him. I was angry for quite sometime but there was nothing I had the guts to do. I am still angry actually. Mostly at myself for apologizing because I did not owe her one damn apology. Anyhoo

Third Q: Yes. Don't feel guilty. I've heard of other friendships that broke off for a good year and then they became friends again... I would not even consider that in my situation. His fault, his problem. Who cares. He wants you out of his life, so be it. Who cares.

Anyways, good luck. Someone helped me by telling me how I would gain and lose friends throughout my life and that helped. I lost one friend but gained so many at the same time, it's worth the loss. Being abused by a friend... well yeah even if I had gained nothing, I would be happier haha.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Your issue sounds like mine- she even had me convinced that it was all my fault and I was apologizing. That makes me angry. She was a bitch to me, I gave her a taste of it and she got pissed. But really, your situation seems so identical to mine.

Good luck, give it time, new job = new friends!!

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by Xexxhoshi

Speaking of which, ironic rly, I've already started to make friends as soon as I dropped him.

lmao the same thing happened to me!! Friends + relationship with a great guy!!

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.