Your Relationship with your Parents

i have a pretty good relationship with my parents and i love them very much.
although there has been conflicts they all seemed to solve themselves out.
my parents are actually quite open than most asian parents such that they don't use the 'reverse psychology' (i've done so much for you and this is how you thank me) crap all that much.

i just think they've been more tolerant than they should.

it's not that i am unapprecitive but on rare occasion i do wish for parents that do not care for me just to see what i'll become. (and whether i'll still show the same love as i have now).


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on that note.... i do have a small situation i' was gonna ask:
how does one deal/talk with unreasonable parents who think they've provided their children with everything (they are rich) but cannot see that their children wants to be independent because the parents want to save their face/reputation (ie forbids their kids to get a job because it'll look bad, have special cars to take them to elementary school, have guards following them around).

Jam it back in, in the dark.