Being too much of a friend to girls

You don't get a girlfriend the very second you go on a date with them. It takes some time. This isn't the movies. This is real life.

Just ask them out and try not to worry about the outcome because sometime things work out rather well.
I asked a girl out to the movies who didn't seem to be attracted to me in that kind of way but surprisingly she said ok. She didn't really give it much thought at that time. She was like, "umm... sure, ok." She was thinking just a casual outgoing with one friend and not a date but then after that evening we started getting closer and closer.
I was anticipating rejection in the very beginning and I bet she never expected a relationship to grow from it.
So just try, because you never know.

And if she does turn you down then it's like nothing happened at all. You'll still be friends. It's not like, "Omg, she turned me down. We can't be friends anymore or she doesn't want to be my friend." Let me tell you, staying friends is a great thing.

Jam it back in, in the dark.