Since this entire thread boiled down into some maturity debate I figured that I'd add my two cents.
I myself don't subscribe to the 'age = maturity' point of view. I'm not really the same person I was 5 months ago (prior to me moving). I believe age might be a factor in the maturity equation but not the definite answer.
I also believe (now) that certain factors also add in to the maturity equation. As, in 4-5 months, I've grown more as a person than I probably have in 22 years.
As for my age limit? Legal to dead (and then some, rawr baby).
And as for he whole cougar thing, Midna and Alice are both cougars on the prowl for younger men but unable to realize or even own up to it. Deni had the best analogy.

Face it, bitches. You ARE cougars.

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