How do u tell a guy that you don't want a relationship with him without hurting him?

Originally Posted by PiccoloNamek

Ouch, don't do that. You might as well just kick him in the crotch.

I say just be straightforward, but calm and not mean.

Yeah, saying that is like a kick in the balls at times. The way that I see it, tell him nicely, if he doesn't like it and starts bawling, tap in the ball and tell "Grow up Peter Pan"

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Rocket has the right idea that works.. Usually that gives me the signal to stop going after someone unless I feel like giving myself a challenge then you just fucked yourself more.

Or he can try to "White Knight" it...

There's nowhere I can't reach.