Is "being considerate" something that can be learned or trained?

Being considerate isn't something you learn exactly, but it can definitely be improved by being more conscious about things. Humans are innately selfish, but we don't all have to be inconsiderate. It's hard to explain. Lol... I've never had this problem before. If anything, I've always been overly considerate of people, which can be painful for me sometimes!

But I think those who are considerate tend to be very loving people. I've realized that as much as I love having friends, I love being a friend as well. It makes me happy when others are happy. You get this satisfaction almost, which motivates you to be more.

If you know your problem, why don't you just consciously think about it when the time comes up? If your friends are telling you about your problems, then try to understand them. Once you understand their problems, maybe you will genuinely want to comfort them. The biggest step is acknowledging the issue. You've done that. It's not that hard from this point on...

Jam it back in, in the dark.