how to get cat to stop hating

as long as you make the older cat feel as if she's still the alpha-cat of the house, then she'll eventually warm up to the kitten. my cat hated my dog when we first got her, obviously due to the cat/dog thing, but they eventually get used to eachother and respect one anothers space. they even play tag with eachother from time to time.

you'll probably find that once your older cat gets used to the scent of the new kitten and understands that it's there to stay and isn't just some intruder that she'll warm up to it. cats are self-centered, she's probably just mad because she thinks the kitten is going to steal her thunder or something. they should make friends eventually though.

if not, you're going to have some grouchy pets.

Jam it back in, in the dark.