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Originally Posted by Sassafrass
Once when I worked at the hotel, I had a guy literally throw a phone at me.
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russell crow? =o
as for me... I don't really think I lean to either side. I'm definitely not aggressive, but I'm assertive when need be so I don't let people walk all over me either. I'm passive in the sense that things just don't stress me out very much and I don't get angry easily, so I guess I just sort of pick my battles rather then allow things to get under my skin.
I've never really been one to get into many conflicts in the first place, mostly due to my age and the fact that I was generally more mature than a lot of my peers, so I'm not really the type to care if you've got some petty problem with me. there's no point in making a huge deal about it, especially if there are other people around. if you don't like someone, simply don't make it a point to hang around with them. it's amazing how many people just don't understand this concept.
there are certain situations that would warrent me giving someone a piece of my mind, but I really haven't encountered anyone that was directly that rude to me or was incredibly rude to someone else who didn't deserve it. I wouldn't hesitate to give them a backhanded remark or battle it out with them should they cross that line, but alas the situation hasn't risen yet.
Jam it back in, in the dark.