Roommates

He sounds like he's in love with you, I have to say. I assumed you were a guy until the "crying in my room" bit, at which point I started having doubts.

Anyway, I've only lived for a very short period together with a girl, but it wasn't really a roommate situation. I needed a place to sleep cause I basically couldn't take it anymore at home, and she offered. I didn't have any stake in the house other than that I paid a small part of the rent, and practically no possessions of mine were ever present at her place. It was very much her place that I was a paying guest in.

It got awkward pretty quickly after I found out she was, well, really into me. And weird about it. I was seeing someone at the time (which complicated matters on both ends, cause the girl I was seeing became very jealous of the girl I was living with, understandable I guess).

She, just like this roommate you described, started thinking of things as common possessions, but the thing was she bought them. They were 100% hers and I made absolutely no claim otherwise, I never said the TV was ours. She did. It made me uncomfortable but I'm not really one to start an argument with someone who is keeping you from living in a cardboard box on the street, so I just let it slide or made a casual remark about it, trying to play it down a bit.

I basically slept on a mattress in the living room which was fine. But occassionally she would try to get me to sleep in her room or she would "come home drunk" and sleep in my bed. It'd be really hot if I was at all into her, but she was an A-cup with more boobs than brains.

There were other things, but you get the basic idea.

Anyway, it was a pain for about 3 months, haha. After that I went crawling back to my parents and begged them to forgive me for my sins.


As for solutions to your problems, I pretty much agree with Night Phoenix X. I didn't exactly deal with it in an exemplary manner myself though (to this day, I never told the girl that I just wasn't/am not remotely attracted to her).

Jam it back in, in the dark.