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Hi All...
So I don't know if you would call it a date or anything. I just go with the flow, you know? Well, I have gone out with this guy a few times. I like him. We seem to get along well, and talk about everything--from family/friends, life in college/after college, to ex-significant others and such.
Problem is, he won't make a move, and due to a previous bad relationship scare, and my shyness, I won't bring it up. We have been out twice, but talk a lot, and yeah, it's really a nice thing. At times I think he might like me too. Other times not.
What do I do?
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Like Chris Rock observed (is it bad that most of my wisdoms come from stand up comics?), girls are ready to settle down, marry and have kids after something like 3 good dates. Guys are
never ready for it. Of course, we do want to get laid. At any rate--two dates isn't exactly living together. The guy may be a little careful, your post implies that he went through some other relationships that ended (presumably badly!), so he may not be hugely enthusiastic to join the fray again.
At any rate, if you get tired of his wishy-washy bullshit, just make a move. Most guys really don't mind, especially if they're shy and clumsy in relationships like this guy seems to be. Perhaps you should see if you can hold his hand or something.
Don't be too clingy or pushy though, that scares the shit out of us.
Jam it back in, in the dark.
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