No call, No show

Originally Posted by Denicalis

Why did we have to change this from angst! again?

I have yet to hear a satisfactory answer to this question also.

You may have pushed your luck a bit too far with your clingy behaviour already. What Ayos and Sass say is right. It kinda seems contradictory to us guys (actually, if you think about it for long enough, it starts to make sense), but if you're serious about a relationship with a girl, you gotta push 'em away a bit.

Don't become clingy because, Goddamnit, she is lucky to net a date with you. It may sound a bit cocky but it's the right frame of mind. You can get any other girl, and have just as good a date (even better!) than with her. You're giving her a chance.

Personally, I'd move on. One date doesn't mean a lot no matter how much fun it was, and if she's that flaky, it'll probably be a pain later on (flaking out and being late on dates or appointments--let alone not showing up--is #1 on my list of bullshit traits that I don't tolerate, in friends or lovers). But I guess you like her a lot, so give her another chance, but don't let her off the hook easily.

Jam it back in, in the dark.