So I really like this girl part 2.

Originally Posted by Jin

Yeah, make friends with girls that are hot and date girls that are hotter than her.

I don't know if this was intended as a joke, but it's seriously good advice.

Shape-shifter already said everything I would've about your current situation. So we've established the situation where you gave away any power you may have had. It's going to be an uphill struggle to get it back. The best thing you can do is move on, date other (hot) girls, and IF you're serious about her, make sure she knows about it. Women are extremely competitive (sorry for the generalisation girls, but it's been my experience 100%, and I'm not the only one), so doing this will make you much more attractive in her mind. You put yourself in her life as someone who can maintain a relationship and isn't anybody's lapdog. You're not a wuss, you're a catch.

Additionally, you must become confident when dealing with her. When you tell her you will wait for her, you're essentially telling her that she's worth everything to you, and also that YOU think you're not worth a lot. You have to start teasing her a bit, have a good time with her, and don't talk with her about her problems (unless you're charging her an hourly psychiatry fee). You want to be at least an equal to her, and that means having some power to choose things. This relationship would be great for HER, not YOU. YOU can find a great girl somewhere else, but you're giving HER a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to hang with YOU. I'm exaggerating a little, but I'm just trying to drive the point home.

If this sounds counter-intuitive, it's probably because you're a great friend. But a "friend" does not create a spark in a woman's heart, it's just that simple.

How ya doing, buddy?