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Originally Posted by Shonos
I have the feeling more men are going to like the shy or quiet partner.
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I sure don't. As a lifelong introvert, the last thing I want is someone like me; I tend to be attracted to women who are confident and outgoing. I reckon some of it would rub off on me after a while. Also from this attraction, I've come to understand what makes
me so unattractive, and I think a lot of angsty teenagers would benefit from such a "revelation."
So I would say it's better to be quiet than to be shy. Even the most obnoxious people in the world can be quiet once in a while. But as others have said, shy implies insecurity and a lack of confidence. And from personal experience, I can safely say that that is no fun. The only way being shy is attractive is if you're already good-looking. If you're not, you better start working on that personality and charm.
Jam it back in, in the dark.
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