Casual dating

She's the one who disappeared.

Play on, good Knight.

The way I look at it, until you've both decided to be exclusive the field exists to be played. Man, seven years on the shelf. You're no good to ANYONE in a committed relationship right now anyway. You need time to get your head and heart together, so in the mean time, enjoy yourself. Get attached, break their heart, get yours broken, get over the seven years. Eventually you'll feel better. But I promise you, a large portion of pining after new girl is projection from the old girl.

Have fun, son. Post break-up is pretty awesome. Cut you a swath.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

The reason for a), shorty, is that casual dating equals a regular hang out partner, and more importantly, a more regular hook-up than just a friend with benefits.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by Shilee

I would keep with the casual dating; who knows you might end up finding someone worth pursuing on more than a casual basis. I would also be a little more persistent with this girl if you think she is worth it.

At the very least I would try an impromptu visit to her house with flowers or something. Who knows she might be testing you to see if you are really interested in her. Exchanging phone calls every now in then doesn't really show much interest on your part and is a sure fire way to drift apart if that is all you are doing.

You could always go all stalker like also and higher a private investigator to follow her around or give you a list of who she called.

The cute part is that you don't think randomly showing up at the house of some girl he isn't really dating with flowers WOULDN'T be seen as creepy stalker behaviour.

If you heed any piece of advice in this thread, Cell, heed this: DO NOT DO THIS.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

I think even if you've been dating a girl for a month or two, not too seriously, and she gives you the silent treatment and you show up, giving her the Say Anything treatment, it isn't going to make things better.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?