No call, No show

Originally Posted by Shape-shifter

It sounds to me like you may have fallen victim to what the playas are calling a "cockblock", my friend.

From what you say it appears as though she really was keen initially. Maybe she told her sister, or a close friend, all about how SHE set up the date with YOU, and how SHE texted YOU to warn you that SHE would be calling YOU. Her sis or friend might then have informed her about how desperate she was coming across, and told her not to call you, perhaps saying something like "let him call you!" or "let him do some work!" or something equally illogical given the circumstances, thus blocking any chance of you getting some action on this occasion.

Don't call her and don't wait for any longer than a week maximum before going back to playing the field. It's her own fault for listening to stupid advice or for otherwise flaking out on your date. If you run into her don't ask why she didn't call or get angry or anything, just be courteous. You need to act as though it didn't affect you, even though it obviously did.

Also, you describe her as a "cool girl" even though she flakes out on your date. Sounds like you are in love. Awww... ain't that sweet. Not sweet enough to stop her from ripping your heart out and jumping on it and kicking it against the fucking wall! Not that I'm bitter or anything...

Wow, you fail on epic levels I didn't even know existed yet. Why did we have to change this from angst! again?

Jam it back in, in the dark.