Larry Oji, Super Moderator, Judge, "Dirge for the Follin" Project Director, VG Frequency Creator

Member 2684

Level 2.38

Mar 2006

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Feb 15, 2007, 09:30 AM
Local time: Feb 16, 2007, 01:30 AM
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I have always been outgoing so i never found it hard to meet new people but a true friends is hard to find, i rememebr telling someone that they were my best friend but she turned to me and said "You have enough best friends im your close friend" and I realised that I truly did have too many people that superficially called me their "best friend" but there are only about 3 people that i would confide in and that I can just turn up to their place and never feel uninvited. I met my close frineds all through school, sometimes you just connect with someone and you feel comfortable around them. But if you are just looking for some people to hang out with then everything that has been suggested sounds fine and maybye one of those people will be someone that you can have that close friendship with. Also hanging out in groups is good too if you feel awkward or shy cause then its easier for a conversation to flow especially if you dont know someone that well. And yeah online chat is good cause its kinda impersonal, so you can get to know someone but still keep a comfotable distance. I hope you have more some more confidence in yourself cause eveyone deserves to have some pals.
Jam it back in, in the dark.
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