Partners with lots of history!!

I just started dating someone, and its been just over two weeks now and i just found out that he at the ripe old age of 17 has had 42 previous relationships!!! which makes me number 43 and I have had 4 before him. For one I am the jealous type so immediately I was jealous for things I didnt even know about for some reason he keeps on bringing up his past 2 exes and there is some dark stuff in his past that is just hard to listen to and he just says it in passing "oh thats the spot where i got handcuffed" "thats the police station where I was nearly stripped searched" "this time last year I nearly Over Dosed" I guess i feel a bit innocent i mean he has had a LIFE and what I went through high school got average grades then passed. And when i see his friends I always feel like they tread softly when they talk about him there are pauses and eye contacts and "well I better let him tell you that...." The truth is I dont want to know. Is that selfish?? I mean its been two weeks I dont feel like carrying the burdens of his life. And is is it reaaly that important to know every minute detail of somebodies past to be able to have a healthy and long lasting relationship with them? cause I am scared that one day he will sit me down and tell it allllll to me, i dont even know how to react to hearing things like that am I supposed to comment? to just sit quite and look at them with a expression. And to top it off there is a slight tone of superiority when he does bring up some of the bad stuff hes done, like I havnt experienced anything.... but I reaaally like him hahaha

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MetheGelfling, yeah I am a gay guy and hes clean Ive seen his test results haha. I seem to be getting mainly negative responses from this forum but i kinda hinted that I dont wnat to hear about the exes and yeah he didnt bring them up for the first time which was a welcome relief. And yeah i was also wondering how long he expects this to last and its febuary now and hes saying I should help him plan his birthday party which is in OCTOBER ive never even dated anyone that long. And i think we was mainly busted for substance abuse... maybye I will take the shallow route and just have fun with him, but i really wanted something long lasting...

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Okay I am gonna confirm that 42 number since he did tell me that when he was drunk. But now I realise that hes been hurt alot and been cheated on heaps so that could explain the high number... But yesterday we went out with a few friends and he was like genuinely sweet and there was no mention of his past and he was concerned that i was gonna cheat on him (he told my best friend) and when we are the festival 2 of his exes were like right near us!!! And he just wanted to get away from them, I think initially he was trying to impress me but now he knows that i dont wanna hear stuff like that. Im enjoying being with him more and more and i kinda lost my virgnity to him so i wouldnt want it to end yet.

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Okay i ended it, and of all days VALTINES day!! We had a few drinks and then I asked him if he was a slut and he said he was a whore and said the night he met me there were 2 other people he was considering leaving with and ONE of them is one he has repeatedly told me he doesnt like and does not find attractive but that he was going to sleep with him that night!!! It just made me sooooo mad as if i am gonna feel special to him at all if thats the way he lives him life and i asked about the 42 figure and yes he still stands by that number of relatiionships and on how many ppl he has had sexual encounters with he claims to be over 110!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! okay if its true YUK and if its not what a bastard to keep lying to me! So thanx for your advice cause i probably would have stayed with him haha if i didnt have this nagging feeling "but all those ppl said...." so you have saved me from heart ache cause im happier now!!

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