Dating...

I was an in a situation dating this girl who within a few weeks started with the "I love you" and I played along hoping my feelings would change. 3 months later they still hadn't, and eventually I broke it off with the usual bullshit because I felt guilty of the whole lack-of-emotional-bond on my side.

I think the biggest reason I didn't love her (I think) is because she wasn't capable of conversation. For me, it isn't enough that they're smart because what's the point if you have no opinions or interests? I've found I need someone who I can talk to about ideas, etc, while they're able to present their own opinion or interests in intelligent ways, etc. Not easy to find.

Jam it back in, in the dark.