First "breakup"

I agree with you Living Legend. You're better off without her. If she chose drugs and alcohol over you, then she really doesn't have her life together. Those behaviors are negligent and selfish, and anyone who thinks you need drugs or alcohol to have a good time... well you're an idiot. Don't even try to turn this into a "drugs and alcohol aren't as bad as everyone makes them out to be" thread. They are, you're wrong, shut-up. I will not argue with idiots.

So Living Legend, take some time to sort things out. Time will heal some of those wounds. When you are ready go find yourself a girl that actual has some self-esteem and doesn't engage in self-deprecating behaviors.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

It is a serious problem, and "who really cares" are the people around them, not the people that do it with them, but their family and the friends they may have that don't do it.

Pretending that something is not a problem just because there are other people who do the same thing is negligent. What do they teach you in school about drugs and alcohol? *sigh*

There's nowhere I can't reach.

If you're over her, don't let her drag you back down.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

I agree with chaofan.

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Listening to music after a break up is almost a right of passage. The love songs turn to angry loud songs, and after a few weeks hopefully you'll feel better and be over her.

I was speaking idiomatically.