I have been pretty shy all my life but lately i have been starting to open up to people and hang out with them on occasions, usually if i know them well enough it becomes easy, but if im just meeting someone or a new group of people, the shyness creeps from the back of my head.
Girls especially attractive ones are what gets to me most. Like i was in the breakroom at my college waiting for classes to start and minding my own business, When this cute asain chick comes and usually sits alone at a table by the window, She comes everyday buys soemthing from the machine and sits down. She was pretty cute,attractive,ect. So one day as i am studying notes from class, I didn't notice her walking up to me and casually asking in a small voice: Excuse me but do you have the time? By then i heard her looked up and almost had a fucking heart attack, but then i just maintaned my composture, looked her straight in the eye and told her the time in a confident voice. So usually the only time im confident is when the situation that im nervous about happens. Its like you act quickly and forget about the fear.
I think with a little practice, shyness will be almost non-existant.
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