Dying Friendship

She does care, and she is questioning herself, as you can see from the end of her post. I'm sure your friendship did mean a lot to her, but people move on, and sometimes, incompatibilities become too difficult to be worked out. Friendships aren't always easy, but if it was getting this hurtful, maybe the best thing for you and your former friend is not to be so close anymore?

Sure, it would be nice if it could all be resolved in a conversation, but it sounds like it's a really fundamental problem that won't simply be brushed aside either way. You may still choose to talk to her and tell her how you feel, if you think it will make you feel better, but remember that it won't change her, and that she may not react in the way you are hoping for.

Lastly, don't torture yourself by reading her livejournal. It doesn't do any good.

People can change along with the experiences they make, but you can't change them.

Jam it back in, in the dark.