UNDER PROBATION

Member 26124

Level 9.15

Nov 2007

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Nov 13, 2007, 09:05 AM
Local time: Nov 13, 2007, 03:05 PM
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I personally don't know what I would do. I'm 20, so some people do have children at that age, but I, personally, don't feel ready for it yet. Then again, it might be different if somebody has children.
My humble advice would be, like others have said: Think about it well, it is a "package deal". If you don't get along with the kids, it won't work, because the children will always come first for her (ideally). I'm not saying you need to be best friends with the children right away, and who says that she wants you in their life so quickly, but if you're serious about her, you have to be able to live with the fact that you may have to take responsibility one day. You don't have to be a father, but if things get serious between you and this girl, you will have to interact with them, and be prepared to make sacrifices. If that thought absolutely repulses you, I'd say don't go there. If you think "maybe", I'd wait and see how things develop between you and her.
Jam it back in, in the dark.
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