Leaving a relationship

Grail, you have some serious problems that you need to take care of before worrying about the baby and your girlfriend. First of all, you have some serious priority issues. How much money do you regularly maintain in savings for "just-in-case" or mere pleasure spending? Not very much, right? Is your job sufficient enough to support this lifestyle? Probably not. I'm not looking for exact amounts, but immediately I can tell you don't know what you're doing. And soon enough, you can find yourself kissing that POS computer goodbye, as well as all of your other belongings.

So, in hopes you're a person of diligence who has some discipline to change his ways, GFF will try to help you. At least I will. At this moment, I'm pretty much going to ignore what everyone else has already posted and let you read what I think. I've read some of the earlier posts of course and many of them express my exact thoughts.

First off, your relationship. You can probably maintain your desires and lifestyle a little bit better if you didn't have to worry about a woman and her child. So, do you love this woman, still? Enough to want to take care of her? Or are you suddenly feeling some degree of hate and regret? If you don't have any feeling for this woman and the problems that come with her, get rid of her. Drive her to her parents' place, friend, or other relative. Somewhere away from you. If you're married, well, divorce may cost $300-$500, but it could be well worth it later on. Get rid of her and you'll find yourself buying better computers, more games, and a level 60 whatever in WoW.

If you still want to be with this woman, then you need to start quitting some of the things you currently are (obviously) addicted to. For one, cancel your WoW account ENTIRELY or moderate your playing times. Maybe you think you can continue to afford it, so play less of it than usual. Maybe you need that extra time and $15 dollars each month, get rid of it completely. Even sell your account or software.

Next, take control dude. Be the man of the house. Married or not, you hold dominance as the sole reason she can continue living how she does. As carefree and aimless as your girlfriend seems, she needs to get a clue that without you, what's she got left? You don't like constant annoying complaints, an overdose in responsibilities, and the hogging of your prized possession? DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT YOU PATHETIC EXCUSE FOR A MAN. Of course, you don't have to go about it harshly, sparks flying, and anger. I suggest you calmly talk to her about it, as best as possible. Explain the crisis, the situation, debt, whatever. Get her attention and persuade her to see why you think A, B, C, and D are so important of points.

You're both adults, yet, one acts like a child and the other acts like a slave. What a life, right? Seeing as your inital post initially asks to get out of such relationships, I suggest you start taking action to get rid of her. Start looking up stuff like info on her relatives and friends. Dump her there, say good bye. It may seem mean, cruel, harsh, bully-like, but what you want is obviously what's more important to you. Who can argue with that?

Grail, you have some serious problems that you need to take care of before worrying about the baby and your girlfriend. First of all, you have some serious priority issues. How much money do you regularly maintain in savings for "just-in-case" or mere pleasure spending? Not very much, right? Is your job sufficient enough to support this lifestyle? Probably not. I'm not looking for exact amounts, but immediately I can tell you don't know what you're doing. And soon enough, you can find yourself kissing that POS computer goodbye, as well as all of your other belongings.

So, in hopes you're a person of diligence who has some discipline to change his ways, GFF will try to help you. At least I will. At this moment, I'm pretty much going to ignore what everyone else has already posted and let you read what I think. I've read some of the earlier posts of course and many of them express my exact thoughts.

First off, your relationship. You can probably maintain your desires and lifestyle a little bit better if you didn't have to worry about a woman and her child. So, do you love this woman, still? Enough to want to take care of her? Or are you suddenly feeling some degree of hate and regret? If you don't have any feeling for this woman and the problems that come with her, get rid of her. Drive her to her parents' place, friend, or other relative. Somewhere away from you. If you're married, well, divorce may cost $300-$500, but it could be well worth it later on. Get rid of her and you'll find yourself buying better computers, more games, and a level 60 whatever in WoW.

If you still want to be with this woman, then you need to start quitting some of the things you currently are (obviously) addicted to. For one, cancel your WoW account ENTIRELY or moderate your playing times. Maybe you think you can continue to afford it, so play less of it than usual. Maybe you need that extra time and $15 dollars each month, get rid of it completely. Even sell your account or software.

Next, take control dude. Be the man of the house. Married or not, you hold dominance as the sole reason she can continue living how she does. As carefree and aimless as your girlfriend seems, she needs to get a clue that without you, what's she got left? You don't like constant annoying complaints, an overdose in responsibilities, and the hogging of your prized possession? DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT YOU PATHETIC EXCUSE FOR A MAN. Of course, you don't have to go about it harshly, sparks flying, and anger. I suggest you calmly talk to her about it, as best as possible. Explain the crisis, the situation, debt, whatever. Get her attention and persuade her to see why you think A, B, C, and D are so important of points.

You're both adults, yet, one acts like a child and the other acts like a slave. What a life, right? Seeing as your inital post initially asks to get out of such relationships, I suggest you start taking action to get rid of her. Start looking up stuff like info on her relatives and friends. Dump her there, say good bye. It may seem mean, cruel, harsh, bully-like, but what you want is obviously what's more important to you. Who can argue with that?

Grail, you have some serious problems that you need to take care of before worrying about the baby and your girlfriend. First of all, you have some serious priority issues. How much money do you regularly maintain in savings for "just-in-case" or mere pleasure spending? Not very much, right? Is your job sufficient enough to support this lifestyle? Probably not. I'm not looking for exact amounts, but immediately I can tell you don't know what you're doing. And soon enough, you can find yourself kissing that POS computer goodbye, as well as all of your other belongings.

So, in hopes you're a person of diligence who has some discipline to change his ways, GFF will try to help you. At least I will. At this moment, I'm pretty much going to ignore what everyone else has already posted and let you read what I think. I've read some of the earlier posts of course and many of them express my exact thoughts.

First off, your relationship. You can probably maintain your desires and lifestyle a little bit better if you didn't have to worry about a woman and her child. So, do you love this woman, still? Enough to want to take care of her? Or are you suddenly feeling some degree of hate and regret? If you don't have any feeling for this woman and the problems that come with her, get rid of her. Drive her to her parents' place, friend, or other relative. Somewhere away from you. If you're married, well, divorce may cost $300-$500, but it could be well worth it later on. Get rid of her and you'll find yourself buying better computers, more games, and a level 60 whatever in WoW.

If you still want to be with this woman, then you need to start quitting some of the things you currently are (obviously) addicted to. For one, cancel your WoW account ENTIRELY or moderate your playing times. Maybe you think you can continue to afford it, so play less of it than usual. Maybe you need that extra time and $15 dollars each month, get rid of it completely. Even sell your account or software.

Next, take control dude. Be the man of the house. Married or not, you hold dominance as the sole reason she can continue living how she does. As carefree and aimless as your girlfriend seems, she needs to get a clue that without you, what's she got left? You don't like constant annoying complaints, an overdose in responsibilities, and the hogging of your prized possession? DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT YOU PATHETIC EXCUSE FOR A MAN. Of course, you don't have to go about it harshly, sparks flying, and anger. I suggest you calmly talk to her about it, as best as possible. Explain the crisis, the situation, debt, whatever. Get her attention and persuade her to see why you think A, B, C, and D are so important of points.

You're both adults, yet, one acts like a child and the other acts like a slave. What a life, right? Seeing as your inital post initially asks to get out of such relationships, I suggest you start taking action to get rid of her. Start looking up stuff like info on her relatives and friends. Dump her there, say good bye. It may seem mean, cruel, harsh, bully-like, but what you want is obviously what's more important to you. Who can argue with that?

Grail, you have some serious problems that you need to take care of before worrying about the baby and your girlfriend. First of all, you have some serious priority issues. How much money do you regularly maintain in savings for "just-in-case" or mere pleasure spending? Not very much, right? Is your job sufficient enough to support this lifestyle? Probably not. I'm not looking for exact amounts, but immediately I can tell you don't know what you're doing. And soon enough, you can find yourself kissing that POS computer goodbye, as well as all of your other belongings.

So, in hopes you're a person of diligence who has some discipline to change his ways, GFF will try to help you. At least I will. At this moment, I'm pretty much going to ignore what everyone else has already posted and let you read what I think. I've read some of the earlier posts of course and many of them express my exact thoughts.

First off, your relationship. You can probably maintain your desires and lifestyle a little bit better if you didn't have to worry about a woman and her child. So, do you love this woman, still? Enough to want to take care of her? Or are you suddenly feeling some degree of hate and regret? If you don't have any feeling for this woman and the problems that come with her, get rid of her. Drive her to her parents' place, friend, or other relative. Somewhere away from you. If you're married, well, divorce may cost $300-$500, but it could be well worth it later on. Get rid of her and you'll find yourself buying better computers, more games, and a level 60 whatever in WoW.

If you still want to be with this woman, then you need to start quitting some of the things you currently are (obviously) addicted to. For one, cancel your WoW account ENTIRELY or moderate your playing times. Maybe you think you can continue to afford it, so play less of it than usual. Maybe you need that extra time and $15 dollars each month, get rid of it completely. Even sell your account or software.

Next, take control dude. Be the man of the house. Married or not, you hold dominance as the sole reason she can continue living how she does. As carefree and aimless as your girlfriend seems, she needs to get a clue that without you, what's she got left? You don't like constant annoying complaints, an overdose in responsibilities, and the hogging of your prized possession? DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT YOU PATHETIC EXCUSE FOR A MAN. Of course, you don't have to go about it harshly, sparks flying, and anger. I suggest you calmly talk to her about it, as best as possible. Explain the crisis, the situation, debt, whatever. Get her attention and persuade her to see why you think A, B, C, and D are so important of points.

You're both adults, yet, one acts like a child and the other acts like a slave. What a life, right? Seeing as your inital post initially asks to get out of such relationships, I suggest you start taking action to get rid of her. Start looking up stuff like info on her relatives and friends. Dump her there, say good bye. It may seem mean, cruel, harsh, bully-like, but what you want is obviously what's more important to you. Who can argue with that?

Grail, you have some serious problems that you need to take care of before worrying about the baby and your girlfriend. First of all, you have some serious priority issues. How much money do you regularly maintain in savings for "just-in-case" or mere pleasure spending? Not very much, right? Is your job sufficient enough to support this lifestyle? Probably not. I'm not looking for exact amounts, but immediately I can tell you don't know what you're doing. And soon enough, you can find yourself kissing that POS computer goodbye, as well as all of your other belongings.

So, in hopes you're a person of diligence who has some discipline to change his ways, GFF will try to help you. At least I will. At this moment, I'm pretty much going to ignore what everyone else has already posted and let you read what I think. I've read some of the earlier posts of course and many of them express my exact thoughts.

First off, your relationship. You can probably maintain your desires and lifestyle a little bit better if you didn't have to worry about a woman and her child. So, do you love this woman, still? Enough to want to take care of her? Or are you suddenly feeling some degree of hate and regret? If you don't have any feeling for this woman and the problems that come with her, get rid of her. Drive her to her parents' place, friend, or other relative. Somewhere away from you. If you're married, well, divorce may cost $300-$500, but it could be well worth it later on. Get rid of her and you'll find yourself buying better computers, more games, and a level 60 whatever in WoW.

If you still want to be with this woman, then you need to start quitting some of the things you currently are (obviously) addicted to. For one, cancel your WoW account ENTIRELY or moderate your playing times. Maybe you think you can continue to afford it, so play less of it than usual. Maybe you need that extra time and $15 dollars each month, get rid of it completely. Even sell your account or software.

Next, take control dude. Be the man of the house. Married or not, you hold dominance as the sole reason she can continue living how she does. As carefree and aimless as your girlfriend seems, she needs to get a clue that without you, what's she got left? You don't like constant annoying complaints, an overdose in responsibilities, and the hogging of your prized possession? DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT YOU PATHETIC EXCUSE FOR A MAN. Of course, you don't have to go about it harshly, sparks flying, and anger. I suggest you calmly talk to her about it, as best as possible. Explain the crisis, the situation, debt, whatever. Get her attention and persuade her to see why you think A, B, C, and D are so important of points.

You're both adults, yet, one acts like a child and the other acts like a slave. What a life, right? Seeing as your inital post initially asks to get out of such relationships, I suggest you start taking action to get rid of her. Start looking up stuff like info on her relatives and friends. Dump her there, say good bye. It may seem mean, cruel, harsh, bully-like, but what you want is obviously what's more important to you. Who can argue with that?

Grail, you have some serious problems that you need to take care of before worrying about the baby and your girlfriend. First of all, you have some serious priority issues. How much money do you regularly maintain in savings for "just-in-case" or mere pleasure spending? Not very much, right? Is your job sufficient enough to support this lifestyle? Probably not. I'm not looking for exact amounts, but immediately I can tell you don't know what you're doing. And soon enough, you can find yourself kissing that POS computer goodbye, as well as all of your other belongings.

So, in hopes you're a person of diligence who has some discipline to change his ways, GFF will try to help you. At least I will. At this moment, I'm pretty much going to ignore what everyone else has already posted and let you read what I think. I've read some of the earlier posts of course and many of them express my exact thoughts.

First off, your relationship. You can probably maintain your desires and lifestyle a little bit better if you didn't have to worry about a woman and her child. So, do you love this woman, still? Enough to want to take care of her? Or are you suddenly feeling some degree of hate and regret? If you don't have any feeling for this woman and the problems that come with her, get rid of her. Drive her to her parents' place, friend, or other relative. Somewhere away from you. If you're married, well, divorce may cost $300-$500, but it could be well worth it later on. Get rid of her and you'll find yourself buying better computers, more games, and a level 60 whatever in WoW.

If you still want to be with this woman, then you need to start quitting some of the things you currently are (obviously) addicted to. For one, cancel your WoW account ENTIRELY or moderate your playing times. Maybe you think you can continue to afford it, so play less of it than usual. Maybe you need that extra time and $15 dollars each month, get rid of it completely. Even sell your account or software.

Next, take control dude. Be the man of the house. Married or not, you hold dominance as the sole reason she can continue living how she does. As carefree and aimless as your girlfriend seems, she needs to get a clue that without you, what's she got left? You don't like constant annoying complaints, an overdose in responsibilities, and the hogging of your prized possession? DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT YOU PATHETIC EXCUSE FOR A MAN. Of course, you don't have to go about it harshly, sparks flying, and anger. I suggest you calmly talk to her about it, as best as possible. Explain the crisis, the situation, debt, whatever. Get her attention and persuade her to see why you think A, B, C, and D are so important of points.

You're both adults, yet, one acts like a child and the other acts like a slave. What a life, right? Seeing as your inital post initially asks to get out of such relationships, I suggest you start taking action to get rid of her. Start looking up stuff like info on her relatives and friends. Dump her there, say good bye. It may seem mean, cruel, harsh, bully-like, but what you want is obviously what's more important to you. Who can argue with that?

Jam it back in, in the dark.