Charisma

Hmm, nope I don't think I've got that much charisma. My best friend does though, heck he seems to get all the girls, and with no effort :P Frankly, I don't know how he does it, he's clumsy, untactful, never on time and he tends to mess things up, but he STILL gets the girls and everyones attention too. I just don't get it, he's just got this drawing power to him kind of. Well, he's a great guy anyways so he deserves it. But he could share at least a couple of em girls... meh

I'm wondering if you can learn to be charismatic or if it's impossible. As it is now, it seems more like people think I'm friendly, "cute" or a funny guy but that's it. I'm wondering if I just seem to be a hard guy to approach or something, because people usually don't approach me, so I have to go up to them. And when I do it doesn't seem like they don't want me there neither so I just don't get it. I'm quite puzzled by this, but maybe I am just that uninteresting after all. It's not like I share many of the interests of all the people around me in the first place, but I'm not the guy who would say no to any conversation so it's weird.

How ya doing, buddy?