Is this a signal?

Kindness. You're a customer and she's an employee. She must just have a kind personality to do that for you, very nice btw. I'd hate to burst your bubble but there's probably nothing in that.

Now, if she approached you and made it a point to find out when you were free, that's a signal. I'd say anything below flirting doesn't count.

How ya doing, buddy?

Originally Posted by surasshu

Have you ever met a woman who did this? Because I sure haven't. And I think that goes a bit beyond a "signal".

Yup, alot of times. Out of the blue the girl starts smalltalking with me and then it gets to the point when she asks when I'm free. Sometimes takes her more than one try, comes back another time. Usually happens at parties, clubs, malls and happened somewhat at my old retail job. Outta retail thank god, that job was hell.

It's never happened to you? I thought it was normal...

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by gaming

It's a box with a metallic coffee cup inside.
Before I finished work today, I had written a note inside the box asking if she wants to have a cup of coffee someday.

edit* Wait, I thought that through. Good luck man.

Originally Posted by surasshu

I've never met a pro-active girl like that, no. Even girls that obviously liked me never went so far as to directly ask me out, I have always had to be the one to make the first step. Maybe it's just the kind of girls I attract.

You out of school or in university? It didn't really start happening until I got out of highschool. Girls were shy back then lol. I had to make the moves as well.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.