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Grail
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Old Nov 7, 2006, 02:51 AM Local time: Nov 7, 2006, 02:51 AM #1 of 30
Leaving a relationship

Granted, I realize this is the entirely wrong area to be asking this question, but seriously, how does one get themselves out of a relationship?

To give you some background, my girlfriend doesn't work, expects me to take care of HER child (hers because I'm not the sperm donor) when I get off of work, and pretty much annoys the hell out of me anymore because if she is playing world of warcraft, I have to take care of her kid...when I'm playing WoW, I have to take care of her kid.

Right now as I type, I'm holding the baby in my lap while she sleep because she didn't get much sleep at all today, when I worked for 9 hours straight.

I have to put the baby to bed, and get up in the morning early so I can give her a ride around town to find a job.

I need out, problem is we just leased on a new apartment two months ago for a year, and we have some bad checks out that are in both of our names, although she signed all of them (I'm an idiot.) So how can I just gtfo w/o my computer being damaged?

How ya doing, buddy?
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Old Nov 7, 2006, 08:22 AM Local time: Nov 7, 2006, 08:22 AM #2 of 30
I don't even have a level 60

On top of that, she never leaves the house, NEVER.

As for the computer, well, I consider it my pride and joy, kinda my hobby in which I add onto it's awesomeness whenever I can, that's why I consider it important >.>

OH and for anyone else that gets into something like I did, if the bitch says "If you don't do this, I'm gonna leave you" fucking LEAVE THE BITCH. I paid for it in the end cause I'm retarded :/

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Old Nov 8, 2006, 12:58 AM Local time: Nov 8, 2006, 12:58 AM #3 of 30
Thanks for the advise, and I knew that it would be harsh, very harsh but it's what I need to hear ^^;

The big thing is, and I know I'm going to be flamed left and right for saying this, but this is my first real relationship. We've been going out for nearly a year now. She is talking about getting married constantly, and aside from doing dishes and cooking once in a while, I get stuck with all the other work when I'm home from work. Other than that, she is extremly verbally abusive, sometimes even when wrestling around she goes out of her way to make sure I'm bruised sometimes. She happens to be an ex-model which is definately causing some problems there because, as nicely as I can put it, she has been and from the way it looks, will be overweight for a very long time, and she takes all of her stress out on me instead of just talking about it, that's why i need to leave.

She has been through seven people before me and I know for a fact that she is taking advantage of me. She's using her ex-boyfriends to point out everything that upsets her, and makes sure I hear about how what I do isn't what a person in a relationship should do, such as:

A family spends every waking minute together. She never wants me to have any privacy what-so-ever. If I am not supose to have some alone time everynow and then, even when it's playing WoW a few hours out of the week, then I'm clearly not ready for any type of relationship right now.

As for the WoW thing, I used to play it for a couple hours every night before I met her, and as far as I know, she hated the idea of me playing games because she thought I'd give her and the baby no time at all. We don't fight over who gets to play the game, as I typically play it when they are both asleep and I can't sleep, it's usually a fight as to when she is playing, I'm constantly looking after her child, and when I play, I still have to look after the baby so she does little to nothing at all.

I love the kid to death, and I'm gonna feel bad for her when I'm not in the picture. It was to my understanding that two people raise a child, not one person, especially when it's not even biologically connected to that person.

Her mother raised her to not be controlled by men, almost to the point where she gets violent, where my mother raised me to not live a life at all and if I didn't listen to her, she guilt tripped me and cried her eyes out...so yeah, I was fucked from the beginning.

This has been a hard leaned lesson, and I'm gonna end up paying big time for it in the end, and I know that. I just hope maybe someone getting into my situation sees this and, unlike me, realizes that if your significant other THREATENS to leave you when you don't buy her things, or something to that extent, let her leave you, you'll be better off.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Last edited by Grail; Nov 8, 2006 at 01:02 AM.
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