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Originally Posted by Belladonna
My boyfriend and I do not live together but are planning to do so very soon. We work together and I see him for 90% of the day, weekdays and weekends. We do everything togther and although most people would consider that a badthing in terms of "getting sick of the other person", we've been together 3 years and it never gets dull. It's almost liek we do live together and people can say that, because of how much we see each other, it will ruin the relationship, I just laugh. No one knows how close we are and how much fun we have. He doesn't have to spend all that time with me but he does. He always wants us to go out and do something together.
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Exactly these thoughts are why a couple moves together. They think that since they spend the whole time with each other anyway, they might as well really spend their life together.
Most people value their freedom the most and are not yet aware of how much of it they would lose, when they really live together. That most people enjoy seeing each other everyday, even waking up with one another is because they choose so. If either side was being force to do something against their will, which will surely happen when people live together, this relationship will slowly break.
Well, I don't know your relationship, but just don't underestimate free will. All happiness is based on that.
Jam it back in, in the dark.