Sex: Take It Or Leave It

Originally Posted by StarCrossedSoul

However, it'll probably be easier to be man since they don't suffer the most part of the consequences.

Sorry for being late on the uptake.. I don't post often so I'll try and keep this coherent!

I'm not trying to start shit or anything, but I do not agree with this. Someone else mentioned in the thread previously that his reasons for avoiding sex was worry about getting a girl pregnant. I've been with my girl for about 5 years, and we have a pretty healthy sex life for the most part. However, sometimes the mental stress of worrying that I could get her pregnant and wreck both of our lives so early on really turns me off to sex. I have 1 year of college left to finish, and once I'm finished with it, I intend on marrying this girl. However, at the moment her getting pregnant would be VERY bad for the both of us. If somehow she did get pregnant I would have to drop school and provide for the kid. With something like that going through my mind, sometimes, I just don't feel like sex. There are consequences on both sides of the fence. However, I love her and no matter what happens, I will be with her in the future.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by Monkey King

Couldn't you just wear a condom? That 1% margin of error is usually due to user error.

Usually do. Just the paranoia of something going wrong such as breaking or my stupid ass doing something wrong always getting to me. I'm a firm believer in Murphy's Law.

There's nowhere I can't reach.