How much importance do you give to physical appearance?

Originally Posted by Musharraf

I mean, of course I could marry some girl that has an IQ of 200 but a weights twice as much, but if you walk with her on the street, nobody will ask whether she's intelligent or "beautiful inside" or whatever. As well as I don't think it's hip to only look after girls that literally look like a stick (I am talking about 100lbs and less).

I see you're hung up on what other people think.

I think its silly to make the argument that you don't care whatsoever about either appearance OR inner values. But there can certain be an imbalance in priorities with each individual.

I know I place a hell of a lot more importance and stress on intelligence. Sure a person can LOOK great. But that doesn't mean they ARE great. If you're looking for someone apart from a physical relationship, you really OUGHT to consider whats in their precious little heads.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by Musharraf

I never said that I didn't care for either appearance or inner values. If you read my posts again, you will find out that I just said I don't believe people when they are like 'heh I only care about inner valuez', because it's psychologically proven that everyone at least gives a small damn about appearance. I never said it's a bad thing to care about inner values, okay?

I actually wasn't referring to you in that statement, Mushypie. Relax. We all know that there has to be SOME emphasis on one or the other. To say differently is lying to yourself.

Everyone has a shallow part of them. EVERYONE.

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As for me, I do care about inner values. Very much so. But I also do care about appearance, not as much as inner values, I'd say, but it IS important to a certain extent.

So you value looks more than intelligence. I guess it's different strokes for different folks, but I hope you're smart enough to identify a psychopath when you see one. ^_^

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