Money matters (relationship-related monies style ANGST)

Cut him off, but be prepared for the consequences.

I've been in your shoes. When I cut mine off (when I was much younger) from my finances, I lost him entirely.

Which is what needed to happen.

He'll never learn to budget until he absolutely has to, and right now, you're enabling his bad habits.

So not only would you be doing yourself a favor to cut him off from your bank account, but you're doing HIM a favor as well, no matter how much he bitches about it.

If he DOESN'T learn after you cut him off? Well, hey. You ain't his momma, is you. You just takin' care of your own. I wish you luck in it, though. I doubt you're anything like me in this sense, but I have a hard time watching people suffer when I know I can help.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

There are things to do for free which get you both out of the house and makes for a day's worth of entertainment.

Outings aren't just for the rich, you know. ;_;

I would refuse to do anything which you need to front money for him for. If you wanna go out, do something free.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by Zephyrin

Maybe you are just another one of those emotionally needy girls (likely) who just needs a pistol to fit her mortar. If that's the case, accept the prices you pay for the affection you receive, or go be a slut. Either one works.

Wow, Pie. WOW.

I'm not sure why you're concluding the problem is likely in her court, but I swear you become more misogynistic by the day.

I agree that if you lay yourself out to get walked on, you shouldn't bitch about it. But at the same time, I think she knows what's going on and needs some confirmation. She very likely just wants to talk about it.

"Accept the prices you pay for the affection you receive." WOW. You've got balls of steel. Good luck with the lady-catching with that attitude. =/

Then again, you could just be saying these things to be intentionally inflammatory, which I wouldn't put past you. In which case, ignore this post, you ass

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Originally Posted by Zephyrin

Funny thing is, I don't see any part of your post that says I'm wrong.

How can I definitively say you're wrong when I don't know Bernie personally?

Sure, there's a possibility that she's as insecure and needy as you claim.

There's also a distinct possibility that you've automatically categorized most women you encounter into 2 defined classes (insecure, emotional bitches and inconsiderate sluts) based on your absolute shit experiences with a limited amount of females.

Just because your ex-wife is a fucking WHACK JOB doesn't mean they're all fucking whack jobs, Zephy.

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