Dating criteria

1.) Intelligence.

The priority. I will not compromise on this one. A person has got to be able to discuss things on a level which goes deeper than the weather. Nothing annoys me more than stupidity.

2.) Maturity.

I've about had it with men who sit around, do nothing, and expect the world to come to them. At this point in my life, I don't want anyone in my life who incessantly watches anime, hasn't got a job, is in a band (don't ask), drinks or smokes excessively, or has no priorities as far as money is concerned.

3.) Sense of identity.

I don't like people who are confused about who they are, or have very little sense of self. I expect my mate of choice to know what they like, have opinions on things, and stands up for what they believe in.

Looks don't really factor in to this formula. I've said it a million times, and I'll say it again: what's attractive to me is in the head, not in the body. I don't expect everyone to agree with that, but it's how I roll.

I like a particular sense of intrigue about my mate, too. I like it when I am surprised by a thought process, or when they can problem solve with me. I love problem solvers.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by Zephyrin

I personally don't believe women should work unless there's no other choice, but she has to be willing to help you out somehow, someway. If she doesn't work, she should clean up the house, do the laundry, cook dinner. She has to be able to take care of stuff if you break a leg, shit like that. Don't date a lazy girl, one who's out to get a free ride. If she's used to being with people who take care of everything for her, and you're not willing to do that, don't get involved.

I find it interesting that you think a woman shouldn't work. Why do you feel this way? Do you think she's not as capable as earning the bulk of the money? (Just speculating)

It's particularly interesting how you've got these roles assigned for the woman and the man. Where did this come from?

In my case, I am generally the bread-winner. And I do a damned good job of it. I make sure the bills are paid, the food is in the fridge, and that my man is comfortable. Is that wrong in your opinion?

There's nowhere I can't reach.

What's wrong with a good conversation, Zephy? =/

((I agree with Arainach, not surprisingly. But there are women like that to be found!))

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Originally Posted by Crash Landon

Being smart and being a good person are mutually exclusive.

100% disagree.

Being a good person doesn't require smarts - it requires a warm heart and a sound understanding of "right" and "wrong."

I know about 4 people off the top of my head that are some of the best people I know, but are as dumb as bricks.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?