How do you deal with things out of your control?

I'll just ignore the LordSword banter.

I tend to accept things out of my control, if they're completely and utterly out of my hand (like death).

If a friend has come down with something awful (I have a dear friend who suffers leukemia - diagnosed in high school), I do my best to help them in their tougher times. Outside of consolation and support in trivial things, what more can I do for them? I grieve with them, and I try to help them see the sunnier side of the street - for their own sanity.

Most of the folks I know are hearty, bold people who will combat whatever comes their way with pride and determination. I don't know too many people who break down completely when something seemingly impossible is tossed their way.

But in instances of death or things of that nature, it's best to accept and deal with it - not forgetting to have your moments of grief. Allow yourself to feel whatever you're naturally inclined to feel - but don't dwell on those feelings. Balance, balance.

You're alive, and you're well. While it sounds selfish, be grateful for the things you have, and try to remember to share what you have with others - spread the gratitude.

Jam it back in, in the dark.