Dec 18, 2006, 12:01 AM
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Hightop, you're trying too hard.
Set the bait, let her bite. If she had a really good time and she wants to hang out again, the ball is in her court. Let her contact you again.
If she doesn't contact you on, like, Saturday, I would have suggested just leaving her a quick message (ONE ONLY) asking her if she'll still be free.
No response? You're shit out of luck. Don't push. It's creepy and girls don't like that that shit. Three phones calls and texts are really not impressive to a girl.
In fact, I would personally say that even if I PERSONALLY had been in her shoes, having had a fantastic time, if the follow-ups were as persistent as that, I would not consider a second date. It's weird and desperate. No offense.
You called her. Don't call anymore. You've done enough. Now, the ball is SERIOUSLY in her court. If she doesn't call again, don't bother. She has your number. Don't get creepy.
Incidentally, girls will often (or at least some of the girls I know) act like they had a great time and then never call back. It's horrible, I know. But they don't want to hurt your feelings and they'd rather just avoid the whole mess.
Jam it back in, in the dark.
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