I don't know what to do here. Parent problems.

I don't see what the problem is, here. So the man looks at some porn. Who cares? Don't most men do that anyways, even out of curiosity?

I don't see why people would automatically jump to the conclusion that he's cheating, or even PLANNING on cheating because he's looking at porn.

If you found concrete evidence that he's been corresponding with women, then you could probably be worried. But seriously, he's just looking at porn. From what I gather, a lot of men who have been married a long time do it.

So yea, I guess the point is that if he's just looking at porn, neither you NOR your mother should be too concerned. It's normal, suppose.

Also, jesus CHRIST, stop intruding on the man's personal space. Wait until he gives you a real reason to worry. Being PARANOID about him looking at porn shows a lack of trust in both of you. Has he given you reason to be so goddamned paranoid?? O_O

How ya doing, buddy?