...My best friend.

Originally Posted by RABicle

Miki. I think you need to ask her what's wrong. I'm guessing she's going through some troubling times to be acting this way.

Miki, I think RAB is spot on with this. You really need to ask her to a cup of coffee or something and ask her kindly what seems to be her recent issue.

Frankly state that it upset you that she did not attend your mother's funeral (I am really sorry =/ ) You found it important for her to be there to help you through it. I mean, maybe you best friend doesn't know how to deal well with people in grieving? I know I certainly suck at it. I would hate to see MY best friends crying at their parent's funerals!

It seems like she's just avoiding you for some reason. I really think it's best for you to sit down with her, if you can. Offer to buy - maybe she'll be more willing to chat! ^_^

Incidentally, regarding friends taking advantage of you or taking more than they give, I LIVE in this situation. I always feel like I have to give more and tolerate my friends taking it. I only mind so often, though. I like to see them happy. =/

Jam it back in, in the dark.