What About Classmates?

I was in a very similar situation with a coworker/dancer at my old stagecrew job. I fucked it all up, so I can only tell you what not to do. My biggest problem is I come off really strong. When I asked her out, I said "Listen <lady>. You are absolutely wonderful on the stage, and I think you are incredibly beautiful. It would be my honor to take you out to the tea house in Evanston for a nice afternoon tea." She agreed at first, but she decided against it later.

What I recommend you do is just remember it is just a cup of coffee. The biggest mistakes most fellas make is they think a cup of coffee or a kiss on the cheek is a jumping board in to a full on relationship. Just have a cup of coffee, and stay true to yourself. Don't talk out your ass, don't try to impress, and better yet, let HER talk as much as she wants. Don't try to pry too much, and avoid too much small talk. Just get to know who she is. School is definitely the best time to just go for it, as it gives you the best chance to meet others of your age group and generation culture.

I'll go one step further. If and when you do go out for coffee, think about what you want to know about her. My first question is what her hobby is, and what type of music does she favor the most. My female roommate's first question is what part of town do you live in and how much money do you make. Obviously we are relatively incompatable from the first questions we ask. Just don't be shy to turn her down if she doesn't sound like your type of lady.

Jam it back in, in the dark.