Jan 4, 2008, 11:53 PM
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You have to start putting yourself in the other person's shoes and think before you act. Sometimes it's difficult to give certain people a chance...if you see a kid who not only dreses bratty but acts the part, you can't help but treat him in a condescending manner. But there's concern when you start treating innocent figures who you've never met in such a way.
I don't want to play psychologist, but it sounds like you have some kind of unbeknownst issue going on internally, and your actions towards others are a product of that.
My advice is to not be mindful of being nice...but being mindful of being honest. If you think and act rationally, respect towards others will come naturally. I only say this because I believe that someone who pretends to be nice is much more wicked than someone who shows their anger or frustration outright.
Jam it back in, in the dark.
Last edited by Megalith; Jan 4, 2008 at 11:56 PM.
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