Trying to get this guy

well, how long have you known this guy? also how old are you two? i mean, if you are young, its pretty hard to do such a relationship.
To get to *ahem* fuckbuddy status, i'd have to say developing a more casual relationship, as in, get to know him a whole lot better. As in, best friends kind of way. You have to have a lot in common, or at least I think so, unless it won't work at all, and it'll just end up in a huge heap of a mess.

from the way it sounds its just a small crush =\ getting to know him better is the first step in anything, and that means beyond email/aiming/messaging etc.

How ya doing, buddy?