Basically as the title says: I suck at pointless conversations.
I'm pretty good at talking to people if I have a reason for talking to them. If I'm just shooting the bull - you know, idle conversation - I lock up. I stat thinking about how I have nothing to say and then I get uncomfortable for not saying anything, and I then I get even more uncomfortable for the other person being uncomfortable and then I usually just say something stupid and go away. 
I'd just love to be able to speak without anxiety to people. I'd love to start a random conversation with someone and you know, just enjoy talking for the heck of it. I'd love to meet new people like this. It'd just make everything easier if I didn't have this block in my head whenever I tried speaking with people.
So yeah. Share your experiences (if you have them -- can it be that I'm the only freak in the universe who does this ) and advice on how to become more sociable. |
Only advice I can give is to stop worrying and just talk about whats on your mind and if that doesnt work you can always talk about the weather. Though have you considered visiting a psychologist?
Jam it back in, in the dark.
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