This is totally lame...

Originally Posted by Smoodle

Well, I still very much disagree, but I'll just keep it at that.

What exactly do you disagree with? Russ seems to be making some very novel comments here..

Originally Posted by Lady Miyomi

The small things always work. Guys have done it to me. I've seen it done to other girls. It works. Trust me on this.

Definitely! I believe the little things are your only way to get ahead with a girl of interest. For example, just a few days ago in my Philosophy class I was sitting between two girls I had never met before. I was making comments about our professor, who sounded and looked like she was taking shots of Vodka while lecturing to us. The girls around me found it a bit humourous, which naturally opened the door for more conversation.

At the end of the class I was just hanging around outside, chillin, when one both of these girls approached me and started talking about how they found the class difficult, and how it seemed I had no trouble at all with it. By the end of the conversation another girl approached us, all of us exchanged phone numbers, and then set up a date where we would all meet up and study!

My point is this - I'm getting together with a bunch of girls to study, whom I've never met before, merely by acting the the exact same way I normally do.

Did I have to lay on a fake layer of self-confidence? No!
Did I accomplish this by stepping out of my comfort zone? Not at all!
Does this give me the chance to mingle with a new assortment of ladies? Absolutely!

The situation is different than yours, but as Miyomi said, it's the little stuff that adds up!

How ya doing, buddy?