eHarmony.

Worked for me.

By the way, what is so pathetic about finding people on the internet that you immediately meet in real life? Is there a cool way to meet strangers now or what?

How ya doing, buddy?

What are you people talking about?

What's the difference in meeting people in a club as opposed to meeting people on the internet? Explain the logic behind there being more people you would end up liking at a club or something than behind a computer. This isn't the 80s. Lots of people use computers.

It's actually beneficial to meet people online, I think, because you can guarantee some level of compatibility. Whereas meeting people randomly in public settings doesn't give you assurance of anything. And yeah, people could lie, but not about everything. People lie in person, anyway. The only thing a computer makes it any easier to lie about is your looks and meeting in person solves that problem.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

It's not like you're legally married if you get matched with someone. You meet and find out what they're like, just like any other date. Why wouldn't you want to start things off knowing you have at least something in common with the person?

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You know, going out to bars and clubs to meet people, paying for cover charges and drinks and also first dates with people you have nothing in common with just so that you can find this out also costs money. It ends up costing a great deal more than eharmony does.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

I'm not talking about going to bars for fun, peeack. If you're doing that, then you're not seriously looking for someone at a bar. For the people who are seriously looking, it makes more sense, at least from a financial standpoint, to use eharmony.

I was speaking idiomatically.

How often does that work? Picking up chicks at Borders. If anyone has started a relationship that began with a conversation at a book store, I'd love to hear about it. Now, I'm not saying it can't happen, but the amount of coffee you'd have to drink would not only surpass eharmony in cost, but would probably also land you in the hospital over heart failure from the caffiene.

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See, meeting people the conventional way is kinda hard. I can't help but wonder if you are severely limiting your choices by choosing to do so.

How ya doing, buddy?

So, you don't like the suggestion of difficulty, then? How about inefficient? Does that work?

What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?

Metting people the conventional way. Slow down and pay attention.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

... Are you trolling me, Lehah? Don't troll a moderator. It's just a stupid thing to do.

Nobody said anything about sitting at home looking at porn. We are talking about metting people on the internet as opposed to meeting people in real life. Now, if you care to join us in the actual conversation that was going on before you came, feel free to do so, but please don't continue trolling.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

I'm very happily in a relationship of over 6 months thanks to eharmony, so I don't know what the hell you're on about.

And by the way, this victim mentality thing? It's old. I don't warn you because I like having you around, but the exceptions of who gets moderated by me when necessary are few and far between.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Narrow your results. You can taylor your matches for just about any preference you have.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

You know, now that I think of it, it's really not all that great for people who don't live next to cities. You might be SOL, unfortunately.

I was speaking idiomatically.

Yeah, except that I mentioned that if you don't live near a city, it probably wouldn't work for you. So, there's an example of you not knowing what the hell you're talking about. Want to try reading the thread before you post?

Why the hell would I care what works for you people anyway? I don't get a commission and I could give less than a rat shit about most of your love lives. I'm confident in my opinion. If that bothers you, you know where to stick it.

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

It's all just Luddite syndrome, I think. People are subconsciously afraid that technology will replace the human experience.

FELIPE NO

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whoops my bad hahah, I guess I should keep that in mind next time :doh:

I wasn't talkin' to you there, dude. We coo'

What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?

There are a lot of women on most dating sites that are there for God knows why. Probably something to do with vanity. But eharmony is much better in that most people who will pay 50 bucks a month are going to take it seriously. I've tried several others and I wouldn't bother with any of them. Too many hazards, including the hilarious Nigerian scam artists who try to get you to wire them money by impersonating a hot chick on a dating site. They're easy to spot because they're the only women who will actively contact you on most sites. That and if you manage to talk to them, you'll quickly realize that they are not some chick who grew up in Brooklyn and somehow got stranded at a Nigerian hotel.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Well, if you managed to join the site, then it must not be entirely full of imaginary people. Perhaps other real people are there as well.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

There is no entry fee, and I don't care about people who don't want my advice (namely you). I'm here sharing my opinion for people who are actually interested (the thread creator).

In fact, if you hold out and don't sign up immediately, they will send you an email giving you 3 months for 40 bucks. If you can't afford that, what the hell are you doing to do with a woman on a date?

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I fucking love Monkey. ;_;

Oh, you would.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

You seem to appreciate people being a pain in my ass.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

I got upset because Lehah was being as obvious goddamn troll for no reason. Then this guy chimes in beacuse he's got some kind of problem with me.

I can sorta see how I caused this, yeah..

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Could you please just read the entire thread before posting? I mean, in general too. It never ceases to amaze me how confidently people will post without knowing what the hell is going on in the conversation.

We were talking about meeting people online and Lehah started saying something about being a shut-in and looking at porn, which was completely off-topic. He probably didn't read the thread either. If you have a problem with me calling people on trolling, then I don't know what to tell you, but I'm not going to argue with you and ruin this thread. This is my last post in response to you.

How ya doing, buddy?

You get new matches just about everyday. I think they withold most of them so that you will actually consider the ones your given instead of just treating it like a candystore, like people do with all the other dating sites.

FELIPE NO

What is the difference between randomly meeting people in a public setting and (not so) randomly meeting people the computer picks for you? This is the question that none of you have been able to answer so far.

What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?

Sure, but the has nothing to do with the effectiveness of eharmony, which is what this thread is actually about, I think...

Jam it back in, in the dark.