eHarmony.

Uh, you can get rejected on eharmony. Happens about 90% of the time, actually.

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Not really. I've been rejected both ways. It's easier TO reject over the internet though, but that only puts the eharmony user at a disadvantage, which is contrary to what you people are claiming.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Arguing with you is like being on a particularly nauseating merry-go-round.

Eharmony is FOR people who want better odds at finding someone they actually like. Do losers use it to hide from the real world? Sure. Good on them. But that's not what it's for and it is effective in it's intended purpose as is evidenced by it's popularity, my first hand experience, and the fact that it just makes sense.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

Oh, I've been rejected enough, thanks. And I've had relationships with people I've met by chance. All you lose is the awkward "does she like me" stage, which you all seem to love, but speaking personally, I could do without.

Yeah, Sass is being a huge hypocrite, but I wasn't going to let the argument degenerate into ad hominem (I know you love that phrase =D).

I was speaking idiomatically.

We've already discussed that it's not a meat market. You don't get to choose your matches. With other sites, you go around looking at pictures and you talk to whoever you want. That is a meat market, yes. With eharmony, you get maybe 3 matches at once and you have to deal with those people. You don't get to look for others.

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

You know, I never thought about that, but the stuff you know going into an eharmony relationship will generally take you about a month to get a feel for otherwise.

FELIPE NO

If it's cheating, what's the test? To find happiness? And who's grading?

What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?

Well, it looks like none of us are on the same page.

One thing, though.

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And "activities you mutually enjoy" aren't always going to score your your perfect mate. (Its hilarious to think so, though!)

It's more than just activities. They ask you a bunch of questions about your personality. Is there something else that's necessary to secure your perfect mate?

Jam it back in, in the dark.

I really want to figure out what this "chemistry" is. Are you quite certain that it's not just a subtle personality trait that you can't articulate about?

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Now, Sass. What you're describing is the kind of rapport I have with one of my close friends. He's a guy though and I'm not gay. So, is chemistry possible between two people who don't want to have sex?

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

So, in conclusion, Chemistry is another of those words that all women use and yet none agree on. Like "confident".

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

Well, some women secretly mean "obnoxious".

I was speaking idiomatically.

No, I just think that most of the young ones can't tell the difference.

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

I mean, I could sort of understand if eharmony was a scheme and it worked for no one. Then people can get up-in-arms. But it works, so I don't see what the fuss is.

FELIPE NO

What's wrong with paying for a service? What kind of a pinko are you?

What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?

You can create a list of compatible people in your area yourself? How many people do you know?

How ya doing, buddy?

You could call it "efficient."

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Society has always used technology to make life easier. Why should this be any different?

Get with the times, Sass.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Do I have to try eating grapefruit with my bare hands before I can move on to using a knife or should I just use the current technology and be done with it?

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

I wouldn't call people who are different online lairs. The internet is just a different medium for communication. Of course people are going to seem different. Some people make use of the ability to think before they say something. You don't really get that much in real life.

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Man, I accidentally switched two letters in a word. SASSOWN'D

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

It's not a question of "real" Alice. If you can't speak and you use a talking computer to communicate for you, is that being dishonest about yourself? Who gives a damn how someone behaves anyway? It's their thoughts that matter. At least that's how I feel.

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That's not what I meant by behavior and you know it.

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I guess what I'm talking about Alice is how we present ourselves. Not really our "actions" per se. I'm more talking about our superficial personality traits. For example, I don't care if you talk a lot or a little; I just care about what you have to say.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

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Hey minon, you met a couple of people off of the site, did they all seem like internet-recluse types?

Actually none of the people I've met or talked to on eharmony seem like internet recluse types. Most of them, like me, just don't enjoy going to conventional meeting places.

There's nowhere I can't reach.