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To women: How do you view your LOVER (ie not husband) masturbating?
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Well, as my boyfriend and I don't live with each other and we're both still technically under the laws of our parents (i.e, "as long as you're living under my roof..."), sex is quite rare for our relationship. I expect / am sure he masturbates when I'm not around for days. I just don't want/ need to know about it. Once I know about it, I will start getting curious about how he does it, what he uses to get himself off, etc. and it's just too much to obsess over, so I generally give him the benefit of the doubt he does it on his own accord when he wants to, and I just generally keep that out of my mind.
However, if we are in bed together, then I don't mind masturbation tied-in together with foreplay... it's almost like you're putting on a "show" for the other person when you're pleasuring yourself while he/she is watching. I guess that's the fun of it.
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Is it possible to have lustful sex when you're in love with this person?
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OF COURSE!! Sex doesn't always have to be beautiful and "holy" in the sense that it's an act of love; it can be entirely out of hunger and lust for the action too--though I personally think the excitement and affection counts especially for the person you're in love with.
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Second question, when you truly LOVE this person, how do you display love to this person?
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This one's a bit hard to answer as it can depend on the situation. I try to display love in more subtle ways, especially in public. Couple years back I didn't mind making out in public, but nowadays I'm not really comfortable being too close, too touchy, not to mention making out in public...a hug and a peck on the cheek is probably what I allow as public show of affection recently. However in private, I generally
do things I know he enjoys, but it's a collaborate effort too. Whether the affectionate display of love is sexually related or not, I believe the door swings both ways.
Jam it back in, in the dark.
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